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Unconditional Love/ AGAPE

What is unconditional Love? Love fills us, make us whole, and give us the happiness. Unconditional love is enlarging the self, and an act of will. It is not a feeling or an emotional reaction per say it’s what is evident. Think of the difference between falling in love, and growing in love through all difficulties and conflicts. Unconditional love is an act of mental and spiritual will; it cannot and does not take place upon the emotional level, which is where the problems first register. Unconditional love is extending oneself in the service of the spiritual growth of oneself and/or another. This is the original and only true form of love.

See we were designed, created out of love that’s why we yearn for it the way we do. Today love is perceived differently through sex, money and praise leading to feeling less than. This love is temporary! That love that is felt at the bare minimum, which I believe is from the Morning Star, A.K.A. Lucifer, Satan the Devil himself. Yahweh says, “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. II Timothy 1:7 Therefore if there is more fear, hurt and discouragement your version of love if not what is intended. Corinthians 13, 1 says”.

Love is long suffering, love is kind, it is not jealous, love does not boast, it is not inflated. It is not discourteous, it is not selfish, it is not irritable, and it does not enumerate the evil.

It does not rejoice over the wrong, but rejoices in the truth.  It covers all things, it has faith for all things, and it hopes in all things, it endures in all things. Love never falls in ruins; but whether prophecies, they will be abolished; or tongues, they will cease; or knowledge, it will be superseded.”

Agape Love is when we make foolish mistakes, when we fail to do what other people want, and even when we get in their way, but they don’t feel disappointed or irritated at us. That is Real Love (true unconditional love), and that love alone has the power to heal all wounds, bind people together, and create relationships quite beyond our present capacity to imagine.

I encourage you all to display Agape Love, the Love of the Most High! Regardless how you feel or what another may have done to hurt love you! In the end Yeshuah has the last say so, “Therefore wait ye upon me, saith the LORD, until the day that I rise up to the prey: for my determination [is] to gather the nations, that I may assemble the kingdoms, to pour upon them mine indignation, [even] all my fierce anger: for all the earth shall be devoured with the fire of my jealousy no matter the sit” Zephaniah 3:8

There’s only one true love and that is Agape Love, whenever you’re in doubt look to His word and ye will find!!

“God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. God did not send his Son into the world to condemn it, but to save it.” John 3:16-17

 

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What is prayer?

Do we truly understand the power, significance, and eminence of prayer? If not, why not? What is in the way of prayer being more momentous in our lives? We need to ask ourselves, what has happened in my life and how am I responding in prayer to my connection to God? What will it take to become more of a person who has “Heartfelt prayer” at my core; what will it take for me to be a “prayer warrior,” whose life goal is to make Christ first in all things? 

Prayer is how we communicate with God…

The purpose of prayer is not just to get what we want; but we pray to align ourselves with God’s perfect will. This is what the Lord’s Prayer is about (Luke 11:1-4). The main theme of prayer is our vital connection with God as Lord and Savior, and His empowering us for all we do in life. He is sovereign; He directs our lives as well as the rest of the universe, so we must get in tune with Him. We must lean on and dwell in Him so we are infused with His Way rather than clouded and distracted by our ways or the ways of the world.

“Pray like this: ‘Our Father in heaven, Your name is Holy May Your holy nation come. What You want done, may it be done on earth as it is in heaven.  Give us the bread we need today.  Forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us.
“Do not let us be tempted, but keep us from sin. *Your nation is holy. You have power and shining-greatness forever. Let it be so.’”~ Matthew 6:9-13

Have you ever thought through why you do not spend more time with God? What aspects of your time and commitment hold you back from prayer?

If you say you love God, you trust God; then why don’t you have a close and personal relationship with God as you know you should?

Most of us do not have the kind of prayer life we should have; most people give up because either they do not know how to pray or they do not understand the significance of prayer. 

If prayer is our connection with God, then to ignore prayer means we are trying to put God out of our lives; most times unknowingly. 

Prayer needs to be number one for the serious men and women of God!! Like any other relationship, communication is key for the relationship to work… 

The prerequisite to this type of effective, prayer warrior prayer is consistency and growth in our prayers.

In conjunction, we learn about prayer and life in general from spending time with Him and His Word, and by continually growing in that prayer life. We also become better equipped to handle all that comes our way.

Prayer begets more prayer and that begets greater spiritual formation. When our prayers are not just self-focused but engage others as well, our walk with Christ deeper and we  more relevant, and heartfelt. Heartfelt prayer is the sense of passion and urgency that needs to come before progress can take place. This is where prayer becomes more real and transfers into an authentic connection with God, not just regarding Him as a vending machine for meeting our desires.

Additional steps and guidance to having a strong prayer/communication with God:

  • For Step 1: Think about all God provided for you today.
  • For Step 2: Rewind the day in your mind and think about all the sins you committed.
  • For Step 3: Think about all the tragedies that were on the news.
  • For Step 4: Think about what you have problems in doing.
  • If you don’t think this is enough to be very thankful, go to a prayer service.
  • Remember that prayer is a two way conversation. Instead of trying to force the words, take time to be still and listen. God will give you the words to say.
  • For Step 5: Think about what God does for you each and everyday.
  • For Step 6: think about what you need or what would make life so much more relaxing and less stressful.
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What is Your Purpose in Life??

Image result for purpose in lifeWe all have a purpose in life. We may not know what our exact purpose in life is, but yet we all have a specific purpose in life. You may be in a place in life that looks purposeless, dry drought or even dead.

When we arrive to a place of hopelessness it is vital that we seek help, we seek light; we seek the righteousness of God..

EVERYTHING God has created has purpose. God is a God of order. There is order in His  system of creation and design; with man being Gods’ highest form of creation, which is the magnificent expression of God Himself.

God has endowed us with so much power and authority. Mainly power over over ourselves and the given us the gift of free well. Yet we tend to ignore our God given power.

I say that to say this: No one has power over us to make us walk out of our God given  purpose except ourselves.

We; man are the highest expression of God’s creation. He created man with a free will, with a right of choice, we can say “yes” or “no” to God, and, for the most part, we have chosen to say “no.” and  because of this tragedy, those who have said “no” have never discovered God’s purpose for their lives.

“All things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to His purpose”(Romans 8:28). None of us will be truly fulfilled until we invite Christ to show us the purpose in which He created us for.

In my walk of life, I have found no one can help us with finding purpose but God the Father and our willingness to b open and following His ordered steps.

But once you let go of all our past hurt, pains, worries etc… and give them to God our situation, our inner man will get better! Soon you will be oozing with passion, and will feel so purposeful and fulfilled and will wonder how you ever lived life without the peace, joy love of God for so long.

If you do not know where to start in finding/reaching your purpose in life I suggest you first start by seeking the Kingdom of God and all His righteousness (Matthew 6:33) as well focus the following:

  1. What do I love?
  2. What am I good at?
  3. How can I be blessing to someone else wanting nothing in return, but to be a blessing.

Enjoy Your journey into Your awesome purpose-filled life.

All things are working for your good, intentional!! Never failing…

A man who becomes conscious of the responsibility he bears toward a human being who affectionately waits for him, or to an unfinished work, will never be able to throw away his life. He knows the “why” for his existence, and will be able to bear almost any “how.”

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What is Your Purpose in Life??

Image result for purpose in lifeWe all have a purpose in life. We may not know what our exact purpose in life is, but yet we all have a specific purpose in life. You may be in a place in life that looks purposeless, dry drought or even dead.

When we arrive to a place of hopelessness it is vital that we seek help, we seek light; we seek the righteousness of God..

EVERYTHING God has created has purpose. God is a God of order. There is order in His  system of creation and design; with man being Gods’ highest form of creation, which is the magnificent expression of God Himself.

God has endowed us with so much power and authority. Mainly power over over ourselves and the given us the gift of free well. Yet we tend to ignore our God given power.

I say that to say this: No one has power over us to make us walk out of our God given  purpose except ourselves.

We; man are the highest expression of God’s creation. He created man with a free will, with a right of choice, we can say “yes” or “no” to God, and, for the most part, we have chosen to say “no.” and  because of this tragedy, those who have said “no” have never discovered God’s purpose for their lives.

“All things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to His purpose”(Romans 8:28). None of us will be truly fulfilled until we invite Christ to show us the purpose in which He created us for.

In my walk of life, I have found no one can help us with finding purpose but God the Father and our willingness to b open and following His ordered steps.

But once you let go of all our past hurt, pains, worries etc… and give them to God our situation, our inner man will get better! Soon you will be oozing with passion, and will feel so purposeful and fulfilled and will wonder how you ever lived life without the peace, joy love of God for so long.

If you do not know where to start in finding/reaching your purpose in life I suggest you first start by seeking the Kingdom of God and all His righteousness (Matthew 6:33) as well focus the following:

  1. What do I love?
  2. What am I good at?
  3. How can I be blessing to someone else wanting nothing in return, but to be a blessing.

Enjoy Your journey into Your awesome purpose-filled life.

All things are working for your good, intentional!! Never failing…

A man who becomes conscious of the responsibility he bears toward a human being who affectionately waits for him, or to an unfinished work, will never be able to throw away his life. He knows the “why” for his existence, and will be able to bear almost any “how.”

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What’s Your Purpose in Life?

 

Image result for purpose in lifeWe all have a purpose in life. We may not know what our exact purpose in life is, but yet we all have a specific purpose in life. You may be in a place in life that looks purposeless, dry drought or even dead.

When we arrive to a place of hopelessness it is vital that we seek help, we seek light; we seek the righteousness of God..

EVERYTHING God has created has purpose. God is a God of order. There is order in His  system of creation and design; with man being Gods’ highest form of creation, which is the magnificent expression of God Himself.

God has endowed us with so much power and authority. Mainly power over over ourselves and the given us the gift of free well. Yet we tend to ignore our God given power.

I say that to say this: No one has power over us to make us walk out of our God given  purpose except ourselves.

We; man are the highest expression of God’s creation. He created man with a free will, with a right of choice, we can say “yes” or “no” to God, and, for the most part, we have chosen to say “no.” and  because of this tragedy, those who have said “no” have never discovered God’s purpose for their lives.

“All things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to His purpose”(Romans 8:28). None of us will be truly fulfilled until we invite Christ to show us the purpose in which He created us for.

In my walk of life, I have found no one can help us with finding purpose but God the Father and our willingness to b open and following His ordered steps.

But once you let go of all our past hurt, pains, worries etc… and give them to God our situation, our inner man will get better! Soon you will be oozing with passion, and will feel so purposeful and fulfilled and will wonder how you ever lived life without the peace, joy love of God for so long.

If you do not know where to start in finding/reaching your purpose in life I suggest you first start by seeking the Kingdom of God and all His righteousness (Matthew 6:33) as well focus the following:

  1. What do I love?
  2. What am I good at?
  3. How can I be blessing to someone else wanting nothing in return, but to be a blessing.

Enjoy Your journey into Your awesome purpose-filled life.

All things are working for your good, intentional!! Never failing…

A man who becomes conscious of the responsibility he bears toward a human being who affectionately waits for him, or to an unfinished work, will never be able to throw away his life. He knows the “why” for his existence, and will be able to bear almost any “how.”

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The Sun Comes After the Rain

 

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Have you ever been at a point in your life where everything seems to be going wrong? Ever felt like giving up because life just felt purposeless and hopeless?

Yeah, me too…

BUT GOD!!!

Some days I would sit and wallow in all my mistakes and failed dreams; I mean cry for hours and days on end. My face be swollen and ugly and all I want to do is cry even more.

This went on for years and years. At one point was seriously contemplating suicide. Depression takes a lot out of you and I hated who I was becoming. I felt as it I had no one. No one I could depend on, no one I could talk too. I was all alone.

BUT GOD!!!!

I was raised in church. My father was a preacher, my mother is an evangelist, brother is a pastor. I know right from wrong but like most; I veered way to the left doing my own thing in life. Granted I am grown and free to make my own choices, for a while I made the wrong choice, after choice after choice. Not really realizing the choices I was making was taking me down roads I really did not want to go down. Key words, the “Choices I was making”.

No one put a gun to me and made me date the guy I was dating. No one put a gun to me and made drink everyday. No one put a gun to me and made me engage in illegal drug usage. Those were all the choices I chose to make.

As I think back on those very rough dark times in my life I can laugh and smile of about the silly ironic choices I made such as drinking everyday. Not admitting I had a problem.

Let me tell it, I just like to drink and relax and initially I was.

But then I began to drink in the mornings, in the afternoons; all the way to bed all the while still crying still so very sad. The alcohol was doing what alcohol does making me even more depressed.

Something had to give. I knew what had to be done. First I amputated the things people who were killing me; my ex and the substances. It was soooo very hard initially. But every day I got stronger. I began to be joyful again. I actually even feel beautiful today. And I haven’t felt beautiful in a long time.

I have to remind myself daily, all dayAnd we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose” ~  Romans 8:28.

Daily I have to remind myself to be happy and joyful, don’t worry about what didn’t work out or even what did work out. What God has for me is for me, I haven’t missed out on anything. It may be taking me a little time to get where God wants me, but when I arrive, It will be right on time.

Don’t worry about anything. Keep ya head up, smile and pray about it! And remember; in order to get where you are destined to be we all have to go through some things!!


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God’s Promises-He Does Fulfill Them

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God said that He would never leave us or forsake us…

Granted we tend to lean onto our own understanding quite often, we need to believe and trust that He will fulfill His promises to us. It may seem that God takes forever to fulfill His promises to us, but fail to remember all His words to us.

We tend to take His word and use them for what we want to use them for. It may in fact take a while for God to fulfill His promise, so that means we have to persevere when things don’t happen as quickly as we would like.

This is where patience comes in. We can’t just sit around and wait we need to actively hold onto the promises of God, declaring them by faith, regardless of the situation or challenge we are going through.

There are promises that cover whatever area of challenge you may currently be facing. Do you need healing? Wisdom? The ability to pay the bills? Your love life fixed? Whatever it is, pray one of God’s promises that relates to your issue, and hold onto it.

God’s Promises are a spoken and written commitment. If God says He will do something, than He will. If God says He will refrain from doing something, He will. Joshua 21:45 says, “Not one of the good promises that the LORD had made to the house of Israel failed—all of them came about.”

Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything; tell God your needs and don’t forget to thank him for his answers ~ Philippians 4:6 

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Fret Not, Greater is Coming…

I have been down and out for the past 4 days, so I have been in the house slightly depressed. I pray, I write, I worship but in the back of my head I am still worrying. Worrying about my life. How much life I have wasted away.
Sure I have accomplished some major milestones, but there are a couple goals that at times I feel I just wont be able to obtain. Will I ever get married? Will I ever make that $10,000,000? Will I, Will I hun hun? LOL!!
Sounds crazy right? But I have found that sometimes one must go insane to find sanity. In my case that was just the remedy I needed.
How am I going to get my life back on track?  How am I going to make it to my scheduled meetings this week, how am I going to get my baby boy school? And then the sun literally popped out in my bedroom window. Instantly I felt light and my inner man said, ” Do Not Fret”.

Reflection: Do not fret about anything. We must always trust in God, knowing that He has the final  say so in all things. I encourage each and every one of my readers to take deep breaths throughout the day. Get to a quiet place and just pray to the most high and let Him know your petitions, your request, your hurt, your pains and He will hear you as a believer in Christ. Don’t give up  on or in life, don’t give up on being the great person you were created to be because you are still  that great person. But rather take all you got in put in and focus on the Most High. Trust In God!!!

Many Blessings,

HDW

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The Dangers of Soul Ties

sexSoul ties can be a gift and a curse. Close your eyes and imagine being bound to the devil himself. You know he is the enemy, you know he only comes to rob kill and destroy. And yet you continue to go back time and time again. You get drunk/high, get into a car accident S/he’s the driver a driver on a different occasion, you go back to drinking again soon as released from the hospital.

Her husband’s beats her nearly to death, she still go back just days later because she “loves” him.

He cheats on you time and time again and yet you still go back after all the promises of change.
These are some of the  signs that you have ties to a soul that is not for you and not from God.

Soul ties will torment you day in and day out regarding these certain people you have gotten entangled with.  You will obsess over this person/this thing that has you bound constantly; checking the phone for a missed call/text you know you haven’t received. Daydreaming  about being with this person. Frequent calls and trips to be in the presence of what you love so much so much only for it to hurt you again again and again. This is not healthy for you or the other person.

God’s word speaks of “soul ties” just not in this specific manner. He speaks of ties when it comes to marriage, man and woman shall be joined as one. He even spoke of the bonded friendships such as David and Jonathan in:

1 Samuel 18:1 “And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that at the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, band Jonathan loved him as his own soul”.

However; the ties of the souls are oh so prevalent and deadly today. When you are tied to a soul/a substance/a thing that is not of God, it is not good and not in God’s will for your life. Therefore you will be held back and unable to progress.

God wants us to have healthy relationships that build us up, provide wisdom, and give Godly counsel. God will strategically bring good relationships into our lives to form healthy soul ties. In contrast, Satan always brings counterfeits into our lives to form unhealthy soul ties. One must be so in tuned with God that difference between the is spotted and addressed.

I have heard of soul ties commonly referred as a positive connotation, but never read in to them to really pay much attention too know and understand its true demonic meaning.

But when you are in a toxic situation and you want out bad enough you will find away. You will want to know, Why the hell am I still with S/he???

My best and most reliable resource is God almighty and through Him all things are possible. With Him, all things will be brought to the light and deliverance is in the mist.

Repent, renounce and be delivered from the love promises made with your enemy. Soul ties are real, but they do not have to be. You no longer be tormented.

Pray with me…

“Father God, I come to you now with repentance on my lips and in my heart. Please turn my heart away from any idols in my life and turn it towards you. You are the fountain from which all blessings flow and I will praise you, Elohim, as long as I shall live. You are the one true God. You are my deliverer and the opener of my womb. You have healed my barrenness by revealing your Son and your Spirit without which I would be lost in darkness. I pray against any attack of the enemy on my mind. May the works of satan in my life be destroyed by fire. Seal any crack or crevice that gives the enemy entrance to my mind, will or emotions. Use my hands to glorify you and destroy the works of the enemy through your Son, Jesus Christ. Remove anything and anyone from my life that does not align with your divine will for my life and my destiny in you. Grant me the discernment to identify and remove idols from my life. I praise you and thank you for my deliverance. I will glorify you all the days of my life. In the name of Yeshua. Amen.”

Blessings